It's 7:05 and my three children are playing with the neighbors in our backyard. Their voices carry through the screen door while I sit in another room, occupied with reading -- and now writing this post.
I'm here if I'm needed, out of sight if I'm not, and within hearing range just in case.
It's a new development, this in-the-next-room parenting, one that is ushering a phase of life I couldn't even envision when I was changing diapers and hoisting toddlers onto my hip. When I feel adrift, like I'm not pulling my weight, I remind myself that my children are doing exactly what they're supposed to be doing at these ages: growing into greater responsibility, social maturity, and independence.
I'm trying to do exactly what I'm supposed to be doing at this age, too: watching, guiding, praying, and incrementally letting go.
Parenting on the side. I'm enjoying this development.
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I will admit that, in days when I'm in desperate need of a nap, it is a joy to retire with the baby while my almost-five-year old and six-year-old watch an appropriate tv show. (My husband works from home and keeps an ear out.)
ReplyDeleteI understand this entirely, Brandee. You *deserve* naps on those desperate days, and I'm glad you can take them. :)
DeleteI am shifting into this phase too. I have to say I love it. As much as I want more kids, I kind of dislike the idea of going back to the constant dependability that is required of an infant. Course, I'm sure once I have one and know it's my last baby I will probably see it differently.
ReplyDeleteAngela @ Stepping into Motherhood
When I see a mother with a newborn, I love observing. (And holding? Yes, please! I'll always hold a baby to breathe in that amazing baby scent!) But, like you, I'm loving the freedom and flexibility afforded by this next stage. In other words, I don't mind handing the baby back. ;)
DeleteI was grateful for that stage then, and I'm grateful for this stage now. One more reminder to be in the moment.